some days are just like that
Posted by sherriknits
Here I sit at 11:12 pm and wonder if I ever had a minute to think all day!
Hubby woke me up at 6:30 when he left for Bible study. Don’t laugh, but he always has to tell me the day of the week and where he is going because I am almost always no where near the surface of consciousness when he leaves.  I needed to be up and moving and ready to leave the house by 8. About 15 minutes after he left, I flew out of bed and was downstairs before I even knew I was awake. I hate those kinds of starts! (he told me tonight he almost called to see if I’d gotten up)
Anyway, oldest daughter and I made a run through Starbucks and then picked up my sister and headed to the bridal shop for my appointment. I tried on about 8 dresses and actually found a few that I liked but picked one finally. It’s so weird to try on dresses in every size and use clips to make them work…then you pick the color and they order it to be made in China…and if you are like me, you get to pay extra to have it flown from there rather than take the slow boat overseas because if I did it the regular way, I’d have it a month after the wedding. Since I am short, there is never that dress in stock. I hope I’m happy with it when I get it because I am stuck with it and suffering from sticker shock right now. The dress actually has some bling bling to it but is otherwise subtly nice. I did have lots of fun with my sister and my daughter!
We had to get back to town for her to go talk to the baker about her cake. She literally dumped me off at my shop to get there on time. Meanwhile, I got picked right up to go to the little “surprise” birthday party. My dear friend picked up all of my part (little cakes, strawberries, flowers, etc.) because of my change in plans at the last minute to go dress shopping. The party was fun and the birthday girl was very appreciative!

The party took place behind her counter at her shop…but it is still always festive.

I got one call from my shop and my cell phone went dead while I was trying to help. I then dropped in to work for awhile…. I had a customer come in as I was getting a phone call from my bride daughter who was horribly upset because Walmart would not print the engagement picture she had because it was on a disk from the photographer that they had paid big bucks extra to have the rights to the pictures. They won’t print without a release. I do understand copyright but how do you explain that to a sobbing girl who is needing them for the invitation-making party tomorrow after the first big shower? She couldn’t get ahold of the photographer to get the release. Not sure on what we’ll do on that one yet but she did bring us a digital photo on a disk because I told her we’d take care of it for her when we went on our date tonight. Get this…the computer at the store would not read the disk. Dad will deal with this tomorrow while we are at the shower.
As I said, I worked when I had time today. I had two friends stop in and it was fun to sit a minute and visit. When the shop closed, we went back out of town for our date and had #2 daughter and boyfriend double-dating with us. We spent time at Walmart, Target (getting the utensils that we are to bring w/our shower gifts tomorrow) and Barnes and Noble for coffee and a little quiet time.Â
You know what’s cool? The cafe manager at B&N made a rule that no decaf was to be made after a certain time in the evenings. The employees said that certain nights, there are customers who only like drip decaf but they were told to make Americanos instead. I do not really like Americanos. The baristas started trying to wait as long as they could before they made that last pot so yours truly would get a fresh one. Then there was a big changeover in staff. Over the past month or so, they started telling hubby….”you know the drill. No drip decaf. Do you want an Americano or drip?” He’d say “Drip, please” and they’d make it! Tonight when we walked in, I heard one of the ladies say “Put on the decaf!” I cannot tell you what a blessing that is to me! Hubby drinks regular and I drink decaf. Last week, the one girl who wouldn’t ever make the drip very often was working and I said I thought I’d have an iced latte instead. She looked at me so surprised and asked if I didn’t want drip? I said sure! and she made it. The little things in life that make us feel special should never go unnoticed or unappreciated!Â
A few weeks ago, we got to take little boy on our date because we had no sitter that night. The one lady there in the cafe was pretty intrigued at this little glance into our lives. I wondered if she’d think about it. The next time we were there, she asked if we brought our chaperone. We said no, my mom was back on duty. She was a little curious and we told her laughingly that’s why we love this quiet time reading and drinking coffee together. She said, “No wonder you guys come so regularly!” LOL  She thought he was adorable and he was so well-behaved sitting with his stack of books. (lest you think it’s always that way….please look the other way if you see me trying to haul him out of the dvd section at Walmart! Quite another child then.)
When we got home tonight, that dear little boy was ready for bed and we found the usual line of cars on the table. This isn’t the best representation of that and the boy was tired but as usual, ready to pose for a picture.

He has talked all week how big brother and girlfriend are taking him to see Spiderman 3 Friday. He counts down the days and yesterday was saying “tomorrow”. I finally remembered to ask and found out it’s next week…so now we start the count down again. I’m glad big brother is willing to include him on the big premier because it is totally expected by this little boy!Â
Tomorrow starts another day of craziness. I think I better get used to it for awhile because wedding plans are now in full swing!

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