I’m not sure where this week went, but it was busy!
Since I did not have my camera with me yesterday, I didn’t get a picture of Saturday’s sky, but here is today’s

Don’t let that blue mislead you, it’s raining.
Hubby and I had a retreat Friday and Saturday at the most beautiful camp…and I forgot my camera! I was more than a little upset over that. This was a working retreat, but we had a great time. If you’ve read this blog for any amount of time, you know we’ve gone through a very difficult time. This weekend brought much healing … lots of tears, lots of affirmation, it was good. During part of it, we had someone leading us in an exercise in active listening. It was pretty funny. As couples, one of us was supposed to bring up a subject to talk about and the other was to practice the listening steps. It was really cool because I was able to look around the room and see active participation and it was pretty interesting. That’s not what the retreat was about really, just a little section of it and I think it was my favorite part. I think we do pretty well in our relationship at listening and communicating but we learned a lot about dealing with others. I love spending time with people I love and respect and who aren’t afraid to show that they care and to laugh and cry together. That’s not really what it was all about either, but it was significant to me personally.
When we arrived at camp, we had cards taped on the door to our rooms. When we read ours, the tears just flowed. They were thank you notes from the staff at our church. We haven’t had difficulty with any of these people, but they all wrote what they have seen in our lives as a result of what we’ve been through and I was so touched. It’s funny how you don’t see it yourself.
I guess all I can really say is God is so good and so faithful and when I look back, I can see so much good coming out of adversity. I’m so thankful we are moving on and relationships have been so strengthened.
And now, I DID get a chance to knit a little. I needed something that was mindless so hubby was more than a little happy that the socks I started for him back when life felt so tough came back out of the bag they were stuffed in and I managed to add a few inches to the 2nd sock. It was so relaxing riding and talking and knitting. I love practicing knitting without looking (you never know when you might need to do that!). I only got ‘off’ a few times.
When we got home, the dear boy had gotten a hair cut from big brother’s girlfriend. I convinced him to hold the socks-in-progress for me on the wet deck because the light was a little better out there but he kept complaining that it was soooooo cold out there. Not cold at all, a bit wet but I was only asking him to stand on a dry spot. lol The payback is that he loves seeing his picture on here.

The dog of course wandered by right then but what are you going to do…can’t ask that boy to freeze out there when it’s soooo cold! lol
We got a text message when we were on our way home that sis and her boyfriend were taking the boy to see Pirates of the Caribbean because he was pretty upset at missing the midnight showing Thursday night. lol as if we’d have let him go. I cannot even believe we let him ever see that movie, but I guess with older brothers and sisters, it was just inevitable when they buy the dvds and watch them at home. I absolutely hate those kinds of movies, but that’s me, I guess. But…bad news. They were sold out, so they took him to see Shrek. I guess they had an interesting time…our daughter is tiny and it’s hard when someone big sits in front of her. Right before the movie started, you guessed it…a whole family of very tall people came in and sat down. That wasn’t all, but it would be unkind to tell the rest of it so I’ll stop there. However, the little boy commented the entire movie that big brother and girlfriend would take him to see Pirates today….the whole time! That was what he went to see and he let everyone know.
He got to do that this afternoon. I am so thankful my older kids love taking him along whenever there is a new movie coming out. Since he’s been home, he is talking about 3 dvds coming out so he can watch it at home. (is it really going to be 3?) Once he’s seen it, he knows the next step is the dvds and as far as he’s concerned, they can do that now.
We found out something amazing that he’s figured out how to do. He is incredibly smart when it comes to anything electronic. He can find any trailer on internet when a new movie is coming out and will tell you constantly what date it is premiering. (case in point: High School Musical 2….coming soon to a theater near you! He’s been telling us this for months and now apparently he knows the date but I can’t remember!) Well, here is his new thing. He figured out how to set reminders on the tv for one of his favorite shows and every time it comes on (at least three times today), it starts showing a reminder 2 minutes before and then it automatically switches to it!!!!!!! Now how did he ever figure that one out! He is also famous for putting the closed captioning on, he just loves that, and sometimes he changes the language on it. I can never figure out how to get it off, and if he feels like being nice, he will do it for me.
Ok, I guess I have rambled enough. I think I’ll consider knitting a bit for awhile. Hope everyone is having a safe holiday weekend.

Tags: my life. Friends. Kids. Knitting. Sky. Whatever